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This comprehensive guide is packed with practical advice for women who want the most positive results with online dating. It will teach you how to optimize your online presence with step-by-step, easy to use guidelines that cover the entire process, from choosing a dating site, to putting up a compelling profile that attracts the men you want, to the No-Fail Formula for arranging enjoyable first dates. You'll get realistic advice about personal security, money, safe sex, promoting your profile and knowing your must-haves and deal-breakers for your next relationship. Every month millions of women are on dating websites hoping to manage this mysterious 21st Century method of finding love. Are you one of those who have been disappointed? You can change that starting now! Whether you're an online veteran or just thinking about trying, this book will give you the tools you need to create a positive experience. Women over 40 are the fasting growing group online. The Hopeful Woman's 10 Step Guide can help women of any age but if you're over 40, you'll get unique and valuable insights about divorce, children, time management, planning a successful social life, weight and fitness, being sexually active and staying safe, and advice about paying for the first date. โข Learn how to write the most compelling profiles with opening sentences that grab attention and the best selection of your photos to include. Get dozens of sample emails you can use to feel comfortable promoting your profile. โข Find out how to decode a manโs profile so you donโt make uninformed choices and go down dead-end paths with inappropriate dates. Learn the best ways to respond to all the different ways men can contact you online. โข Go behind the scenes of the billion-dollar online dating business and chose the best dating site for you from an up-to-date list of the most popular, active sites. โข Discover the No-Fail Formula for creating enjoyable first dates and get tips on how to plan โmeet and greetโ activities to fit every budget. Never be disappointed again with the quality of the time you spend on a first date! โข Get essential resources you can use for social background checks and guidelines on how to research the men you want to meet. INCLUDES BONUS CHAPTERS ON: โข Safe Sex โข Weight, body size and Fitness โข Monogamy โข Money THIS IS WHAT READERS HAVE TO SAY: โIf you want to optimize your dating life, this book is a must-read.โ -- Shannon Edwards, Theater Producer โIf you read one guide to online dating, make it this one! Itโs packed with practical advice and how-to wisdom you can use right now to get startedโ -- Norma Armon, PdD, Communications Executive โThis book can help make a real difference in your quest for a better online dating experience. It's like having a savvy big sister who has put loads of great information into easy-to-digest segments just for you, and it comes along with a measure of warm support.โ -- Laura Kaufman, Journalist โThe most comprehensive and informative sourcebook about online datingโฆ.Expertly organized and chock-full of helpful tips and insights.โ -- Lianna Clemons, CEO, Beauty Products Company "Christie Jordan's witty perspective helps women take the plunge into the modern era of online dating. She offers valuable and ingenuous tips, providing the best opportunities for success.โ -- Valerie Hotz, Nonprofit Executive Director "With this book you'll learn why setting up a profile is like launching your personal brand. It teaches you how to create your most appealing online presence to attract the kind of visitors you want. Then, you get practical strategies and dozens of sample emails to move the connection forward to an enjoyable first meeting." -- Elaine Jackson, Author, Editor Review: Navigating the dating scene - How I wish I'd had this book years ago when I was trying online sites. Christie's advice on choosing activities the woman likes is empowering. And she brings up so many potential pitfalls -- with ways to work around them. The "hopeful woman" can be in charge and can enjoy the experience, and zero in on the kind of person she'd most like to meet. I'm recommending it for my single friends who want to try online dating. Review: Demystifies online dating for those of us who are jittery - A really well organized book about the do's and don'ts of online dating. Looks at many unexpected aspects. Lot's of insights from someone with lots of experience. I confess I haven't yet taken the plunge, but I will definitely read it again thoroughly before I do!
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| Customer Reviews | 4.2 out of 5 stars 58 Reviews |
E**R
Navigating the dating scene
How I wish I'd had this book years ago when I was trying online sites. Christie's advice on choosing activities the woman likes is empowering. And she brings up so many potential pitfalls -- with ways to work around them. The "hopeful woman" can be in charge and can enjoy the experience, and zero in on the kind of person she'd most like to meet. I'm recommending it for my single friends who want to try online dating.
M**N
Demystifies online dating for those of us who are jittery
A really well organized book about the do's and don'ts of online dating. Looks at many unexpected aspects. Lot's of insights from someone with lots of experience. I confess I haven't yet taken the plunge, but I will definitely read it again thoroughly before I do!
A**A
Some great info, with caveats
This was a quick read. I finished it in one day. I thought it had some great information, such as how to evaluate prospects to ensure you're not wasting your time, who pays for first dates, and good suggestions for activities that are more interesting and fun than meeting for coffee (i.e. why meeting for coffee is LAME lol). It also talked about protecting your identity online and safety when meeting men in person. Good info there. Downsides: The book could have used a better editor. There were many spelling and grammar mistakes, as well as passages that repeated for no apparent reason. Some of the sample emails provided were cringe-worthy in how cheesy they were! The book only covers through first dates. Finally, I think my biggest issue with the book is that it insists your profile come off as supremely confident and relentlessly cheerful in tone, and that you should immediately discard any men's profiles who don't sound that way. I'm not that way myself! I can probably write a profile that makes it look like I am, but it wouldn't be authentically me. I'm shy and kind of nerdy. I wouldn't want to be dismissed out of hand for that, so why wouldn't I want to give a chance to a guy who might be the same?
A**A
Good & Practical Advice for Starting Your Online Dating Journey!
I very much enjoyed reading this book. There were numerous steps and examples that were easy to understand and very practical. What I liked most is that the author made the information relevant for women over 40 and took our significant life experiences into account.
M**Y
Common sense
This book lacked the concrete examples I hoped to find, and most of the advice is echoed in any internet article you read on this subject
M**S
A GOOD READ
A book that helps clarify the do and don't of online dating. i liked some of the ideas, but not all the ideas. some seem too bold for a woman to do for me that is.
K**N
I've read almost a dozen similar books but this one is by far the best one I've read
Well written, well organized, honest and it completely relates to the reality of dating in your 40s using technology. I've read almost a dozen similar books but this one is by far the best one I've read.
P**K
Great tips on profile writing
It was an easy read with some good tips, the best one was on writing your profile and communicating. The tip I did not care for was given to very overweight woman ( I am not one) She basically said they needed to lose the weight otherwise they will not find a man. It would of been better to mention that there's sites specifically for overweight men and woman. Overall it's a good book and it would be helpful to read it before you start posting your profile.
R**N
So worthwhile and enjoyable to read.
I am so impressed with this book. It was written in a smart clear and enjoyable way. Packed with great information on just about all aspects of online dating. I will keep this book to refer to now and then as there are also examples of e-mails to send in different circumstances. I no longer feel like a babe in the woods when it comes to this topic. I feel like I have a comprehensive idea of how to go about it now. I am so grateful. It's nice not to have to learn everything the hard way and stress out about the whole process unnecessarily!
M**I
Five Stars
Good guide
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