Successful Relationships: More Than a Guessing Game

This book and way of understanding is scary good. It is a therapy for what you've done and why you've done it and an instruction manual for how to do it better next time. I freed myself from some very negative patterns and I am making better decisions at the outset of relationships. Highly recommended. You will be analyzing (in your head) all of your friends and their relationships and seeing many things more clearly.

This book explains it all!!!! Are you a Physical or an Emotional? The book clearly defines, so there is no guessing on your part, which one everyone is. It get's down to the very basics that a Physicals heart and pluse beat faster than an Emotionals and a Physicals body temperature is higher than an Emotionals. Opposites do attract because they are attracted to what they find different. Understanding the differences allows them to accept and not try to change the other person when a found in a relationship. Physicals are more comfortable verbalizing, touching and living by feelings. Emotionals are more comfortable thinking, retaining his/her own counsel and living by logic and reason. One is heart-ruled, one is head-ruled. Both are capable of thinking and feeling, and both posses an ability to act out both logically or emotionally. Yet each is more comfortable with one behavior than the other. Physicals are more emotionally ruled, and place more emphasis on the success of their relationships over the sucess of their careers. Emotionals, place the most emphasis on the logical and analytical needs of life. They are most comfortable giving priority to career or work, not emotions. Emotionals express, for the most part, through logical, non-emotional words and gestures, while Physicals express emotionally. When confronted with danger or threat, the Emotionals first response is to back away and think things through while the Physicals first reaction is to express and act out what they feel. Emotionals express what they think, while Physicals express what they feel. Emotionals HEAR inferentially, they SPEAK literally, and Physicals HEAR literally, they SPEAK inferentially. This is a must read for everyone. You will have a better understanding of human interactions. Highly recommended.

I have never read a book on relationships that has so much good advice on how to manage our own behaviors and How to understand others' behaviors. This is a magnificent book. Relationship Strategies : The E & P Attraction

It sounds cheesy but it's true, this book changed my life 15 years ago. I was so frustrated with relationships when I found this book. I'd just gotten out of a long relationship that I thought was perfect but clearly was not. This book not only explained to me why that relationship failed but it showed me what to look for in the next one. And it was right! I've been using what this book taught me for over 15 years now. I've recommended this book to so many people. The cover is cheesy. It looks like a bad romance novel. However this is definitely one of those cases where you don't want to judge a book by its cover. If you want to understand what to be looking for in your next partner, or how to make your current relationship work, read this book.

This is an excellent book on resolving issues within a relationship, educating you on what your partner can and cannot change about him/herself and helping you better understand the needs you yourself bring into the union.G

Great book, but too expensive. Took several weeks to arrive after ordering

This is a wonderful book, if you're in a relationship or just want to understand how we (humans) interact with each other. It has opened my eyes about my relationships (male and female). Why we do what we do and why opposites attract (chemistry), and how to work to hold your relationships together so everyone wins and you can get what you need and desire. Thanks Dr. Kappas!

this is the kind of book that everyone need to read , if you are in a relationship can save it or can make your next one better.