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One of the biggest challenges for the parent of any autistic child is how best to support and guide them through the situations in life which might cause them greater stress, anxiety and worry than if they were neurotypical. Dr Luke Beardon has put together an optimistic, upbeat and readable guide that will be essential reading for any parent to an autistic child, whether they are of preschool age or teenagers. Emphasising that autism is not behaviour, but at the same time acknowledging that there are risks of increased anxiety specific to autism, this practical book gives insight into the nature of the anxiety experienced by autistic people, as well as covering every likely situation in which your child might feel anxious or worried. It will help you to prepare your child for school, to monitor their anxiety around school, and also to be informed about the educational choices available to your child. It will give you support to help make breaktimes less stressful for them and how to help them navigate things like eating at school and out of the house. Educationally, this book will take you and your child right up to the point of taking exams and leaving school; socially and emotionally it will cover all the challenges from bullying, friendships, relationships, puberty and sex education. It will give suggestions for alternatives in the scenarios that might cause anxiety or confusion in your child; it will also give a full understanding of your child''s sensory responses and such behaviours as masking, or echopraxia. As the parent of an autistic child, you may find their path to adulthood different to the one you had expected to take, but as this book makes clear, autism should be celebrated and affirmed. Avoiding Anxiety in Autistic Children helps you to do just that, with practical strategies that will help happiness, not anxiety, remain the over-riding emotion that colours your child''s memories of their early years. Review: My kid makes more sense now - A banger of a book for parents of autistic children. I saw so much more clearly after reading this. Review: A great book - I bought this for my 17 year old. It's amazing to read about things that just 'fit' for her life and school experiences. I felt completely validated and almost in tears as I read it. This author really 'gets it'. Highly recommend. Wish I'd found it earlier. Wish he'd written it years ago, too, perhaps some of her anxiety could have been avoided if I'd known then what I know now. I'm a teacher with over 20 years experience, I'd say every teacher absolutely needs to read this. The trauma caused daily by ill-informed teachers to autistic children is horrendous, this book would certainly positively inform their practice. I'm going to buy the adult version now.
| Best Sellers Rank | #102,607 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #95 in Pediatric Medicine #205 in Anxiety #211 in Parenting Hyperactive Children & Children with Disabilities |
| Customer Reviews | 4.8 out of 5 stars 297 Reviews |
B**M
My kid makes more sense now
A banger of a book for parents of autistic children. I saw so much more clearly after reading this.
M**R
A great book
I bought this for my 17 year old. It's amazing to read about things that just 'fit' for her life and school experiences. I felt completely validated and almost in tears as I read it. This author really 'gets it'. Highly recommend. Wish I'd found it earlier. Wish he'd written it years ago, too, perhaps some of her anxiety could have been avoided if I'd known then what I know now. I'm a teacher with over 20 years experience, I'd say every teacher absolutely needs to read this. The trauma caused daily by ill-informed teachers to autistic children is horrendous, this book would certainly positively inform their practice. I'm going to buy the adult version now.
C**M
Game changer for our family
I encourage everyone who cares about an autistic person to read this book. Clear and efficient, this book lays out the importance of attending to the constant anxiety that causes so much suffering for autistic kids. Beardon makes a solid case for changing our mindset on how we support autistic children. The more we can prevent and reduce stress for our kids, the healthier and happier they can be. Here in the US, when your child gets an autism diagnosis, everything seems so pathologized and tragic. And people just don't realize that people don't suffer from autism; they suffer from constantly being judged, corrected and sometimes even punished for having a different neurotype. So many therapies aim to make autistic people more like the predominant neurotype, and if you agree with that, then this review and book are not for you. If you care about creating the most safe, and loving environment for an autistic kid you love, read this. And then buy a copy for the friends, family and teachers in your life.
N**Y
SENCO must have in their library
Very useful advice on the subject, full of tips and things to consider
W**N
Small book packed with ideas that work
The best part of this book is that it wastes no time in getting you to the information you need. Explanations are solid and eye opening and so far the suggestions that have been implemented have been very effective. Thank you very much for having a positive impact on the lives children. I have given this book to teachers as well who were able to make impactful changes without committing to a long read.
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