Opening Our Hearts to Men: Learn to Let Go of Anger, Pain, and Loneliness and Create a Love That Works

Susan Jeffers reminds us that men also have big hearts that can be bruised and battered.She helped me remember that it's just as important to take care a man's heart, as it is important to let a man take care of my heart.

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Another Fabulous book from Susan Jeffers. I highly recommend reading "Free the Fear and Do It Anyway" - I first read this book in 1988. Opening Our Hearts to Men made me understand that I first have to love myself before I can open my heart to men. An easy read that I have loaned to a special friend who really enjoyed. I recommend that all woman read this book.

Without the male-bashing you so often get in the media. It can be just as helpful for men to read as it is for the women. Her advice is based on universal principles. I appreciate her honesty and her cheerful attitude.If you want to be angry or criticize, go find another book. If you want to heal, this book is a good place to start.--George Stancliffe

This is the first self-help book about relationships that actually looks at the relationship between men and women in a POSITIVE light. Instead of taking an antagonistic view of male/female relationships and bashing the opposite sex, Susan Jeffers suggests that each of us (women and men) look within and make changes while trying to create the right relationship. She helps women see that men are more like women than not--and that we all really need the same things from a relationshp. She also encourages women to assess their current relationships and to understand what they are and are not getting from them. I met the man of my dreams while reading this book because I had my defenses down and MY HEART OPEN. I just bought two more copies for my friends. Read this book with an open mind, an open heart and a pencil. You won't be disappointed.

She makes so much sense and she lays out simple facts of how as women we have defeated ourselves in finding the relationship we really want instead of repeating our failures over and over. I also found that the principles in this book helped me in all of my relationships.

For men as well as women. Susan gives men insight into the mind of woman. This is not a complex manuscript with indepth study into the science of human behavior. It is simple. Even the intellectual can learn from simplicity. Thank You Susan Jeffers, you have helped be become more human.

We all have points in our life where we read something that touches us to our core and changes our life. For me, this book was one of those life-changing books. It allowed me to look at men through a different lens, and look beyond my negative experiences and viewpoints. In doing so I met and married my husband. He has been my gift for the past 15 years, and I found him after reading Susan Jeffer's words. You can't go wrong with this book.

This book is full of accessible, practical wisdom to help women see how they close their hearts and position themselves as victims in relationships with men. It has really helped me to appreciate my partner for all he brings to our relationship, and to appreciate how I have been sending mixed messages - have strived to be independent as well as looked after. This has been a revelation! Jeffers is truly wise - don’t let her chatty style obscure that. It’s a pity the book has such an embarrassing title and cover - but it’s worth getting over that!

Lovely book as i bought it for a couple of my friends who are anti-men, so wanted them to have a different view about different experiences and life

Love it brilliant read

Interesting stance on relationships. Helps women to identify their anger and to realise that relationships are not necessarily about conflict. A good section on men describing thier points of views within relationships.

Susan Jeffers shows a good way of approaching situations in a different perspective, very helpful and all round happier. The author is very jolly in her writing and it is a very easy read.