The Book of Beautiful Questions: The Powerful Questions That Will Help You Decide, Create, Connect, and Lead Paperback – Illustrated, 12 Dec. 2019

Really liked it. Great book and concept!

The book is written in an engaging style, I loved the little summaries and the downloadable PDF q-cards. Primary value was in the pragmatic nature of how to create great questions as well as the exercises.

'The Book of Beautiful Questions' can be summarised into 8 mental models:1. COMMITMENT & CONSISTENCY BIAS+Jeff Bezos says 'if you have a conviction....even if there is no consensus say: "Look, I know we disagree on this but will you gamble with me on it? [can we disagree and commit?]2. EMOTIONS: FEAR+We are happier when we make bolder choices. Steven Levitt conducted a study using people who were in the process of making a difficult decision. These people agreed to use a coin flip to decide if they would go ahead with their decision, if it landed heads they would say "yes". 6 months later he found that the "yes/heads" people were significantly happier than the "no/tails" people. When left to our devices we are too risk-averse and say no too often.+To overcome our risk aversion tendency: (instead of using a coin) use a weighted question: If I am usually better off saying yes to bold opportunities, why wouldn't I say yes to this one?3. FIRST CONCLUSION BIAS+Scientific studies do not support the idea of following your gut instincts. You will be wrong more than you are right.+Asking: "And what else?"... encourages people to think more and go beyond the obvious answers and conclusions.4. LANGUAGE INSTINCT+To become a better listener ask:(I) "Just to make sure I am understanding, are you saying...."(ii) "Can I try and explain what I think your position is- and then you can do the same for me? Because until we can accurately present one another's arguments, we do not know what the other is saying"(iii) Repeat back a few words that the person has said in the form of a question.5. LIKING+If you ask more questions you become more likable.6. NARRATIVE INSTINCT+The Journalist Mindset - Before going to a gathering tell yourself: I am going to go to this event as a journalist, looking for stories about the people I meet.+We are too short-termist in our thinking. To overcome this ask yourself: Which decision will make for a better story in 5 years?7. NEWTON'S 3RD LAW: ACTION & REACTION+Ask Don't Sell - People put up their defenses when they think you are trying to sell them something. When you ask questions you build a relationship.8. TENDENCY TO MINIMISE ENERGY OUTPUT+Daniel Kahneman found that "people who face a difficult question, often answer an easier one instead."