The Real Lolita: The Kidnapping of Sally Horner and the Novel That Scandalized the World

I really wasn’t sure what I was getting into with this one. I love True Crime and I love Stanley Kubrick, which is how I know Lolita. I watched Lolita when I was 12, and honestly had very minimal thoughts. I didn’t have much crossing my mind at that age except that it held my attention. I watched it again recently, and I definitely have more thoughts. But WOW, this book really intertwined the two lives, real and fictitious. This book was fascinating as it twists and bends each story line into one bigger picture. If you haven’t read Lolita, I would absolutely read Lolita after this story. See if you find Sally, share her story and pass on this wild crossover for others to explore.

This is a compelling read, written beautifully with a fast pace and solid imagery. My problems with the book are twofold; first, I believe the author somehow wants to indict Nabokov as a villain for what Ms. Weinman, and others, presume to have been his own sexual obsessions. Why this matters remains unclear. Do we consider Capote's "In True Blood" less of a work because of his fascination with one of the killers that turned into a homosexual obsession? Do we suspect something is amiss with Norman Mailer for writing so eloquently about Gary Gilmore? Or John Fowles' personal demons when he wrote "The Collector?" (which this book reminds me most of the three examples). There has to be a line between inspiration and creative output, and it doesn't seem fair to impose so much on Nabokov because of his supposed fascination with young girls (that he used Sally Horner as an inspiration for the character of Lolita is not in question; the author proves that without a doubt. What remains doubtful, to me, is that Nabokov's interest in Horner and the whole subject matter of pedophilia is somehow made less legitimate because of it. Writing about a crime, or a dark obsession, is not the same as committing one or having it). The other problem, for me, is that Ms. Weinman never gets close enough to Ms. Horner to get inside of her, understandably due to the circumstances of her unavailability and the lack of sufiicient articulation by those who knew her. Thus, a great deal of ambiguity exists we are asked to excuse while sympathizing with this young, wounded "butterfly," in Ms. Weinman's telling of the story. The biggest question remains, although the author speculates extensively on the reasons it is still and only speculation, why Ms. Horner didn't run away or call the police or tell a teacher, or someone, before spending nearly two years in her hideous captivity? Thus, Sally Horner's story ultimately remains a mystery, and that mystery leaves the book with a sense of incompletion. One other thing I noticed is that when Ms. Horner dies, a little more than halfway through the book, a lot of the air goes out of the story as the narrative shifts to Nabokov as the central character (It would have been more effective if Ms. Weinman did not tell us on page on page 3 that Ms. Horner is doomed to an early death. For those of us who did not know the story, this displaces the shock of what is to come). The one fully drawn character is the monstrous Frank La Salle, as gruesome and evil a bogeyman as ever there was, in literature or non-fiction (although I did have a hard time believing that a 5-year old was capable of giving him a "blow-job," if that indeed is what happened. The "confession" of a neighbor's girl is left overly vague, unchallenged and unproved). Nonetheless, this is a very good book, well worth reading. I'm tempted to say entertaining as well, but that somehow doesn't seem to be fitting. The author displays notable talent, both as a researcher and a storyteller.

I read the novel Lolita decades ago. I had no idea that there was any real-life basis for the story. I don’t remember reading the reference to Sally Horner in the book. I plan to reread Lolita later this year. It will be a very different experience this time after having read The Real Lolita.This book presents two stories concurrently. There is the story of Sally Horner — her early life, her almost two years of being kidnapped, and her life after that. There is the story of Vladimir Nabokov — his life before writing Lolita, the process of creating that novel, and his life after that. The book presents well researched details of the various people involved in Sally’s life — her family, her captor, those she met during her time with her captor, and those she met after that. Similarly, you read about Vladimir Nabokov’s family, those he met in his career as a teacher, and those he met in his career as an author.Throughout the book, you don’t just learn the results of Sarah Weiman’s research, you experience that research as she tells you how she learned what she is telling you. It is amazing how much information that it is possible to find about local events that happened in the 1940s and beyond, although the author notes that some things are no longer knowable.Some reviewers consider this book to be a magazine article stuffed with filler to become a book. I don't consider the tangents to be filler. I find that they enhanced the basic stories presented.As I was reading the Kindle edition of this book, I couldn’t understand how the percentage read indicator didn’t seem to advance as much as it should based on how many of the chapters that I read. After reading the epilogue, I found out how many pages were devoted to a bibliography, notes, and an index along with the expected acknowledgments. I apparently missed that information in the table of contents.This is an excellent book. If you read it, you will be glad that you did.

This is such an important book. It touched me so deeply and my heart absolutely broke for the family. The research that went into this book was very extensive and the writing goes into these details without it getting too dry or technical to understand. I got the audiobook and the reader was wonderful.

Very interesting account

I really did enjoy reading this book and learning what it had to say. I must say if you are just a casual reader, have never read Lolita or are just curious...it is overkill.

beautifully written